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蓮達:我是有耐性的人嗎?

人生不過百來載,何苦常懷千歲憂?
July 01

從一個乞丐身上的領悟


昨天放工,停在紅綠燈前。

一個乞丐捧著張硬紙皮。

上面前著:

Anything could help. Even a smile!
May God bless us all!

以前的我不會同情乞丐。甚至可以說得上是鄙視。我覺得他們都有手有腳,為甚麼要攤大手問別人拿錢。(美國很多的乞丐都是十分強壯,不似中國那種斷只胳膊少條腿。)不過他們也十分有骨氣。你不給他錢,他不會lur 你。他們只是靜靜地站在那裡。等待著別人好心的施捨。

不過今天看完這個行乞語之後,好像突然之間有點領悟。其實每個人今天變成點,都是自找的。有句說話說得好對:what we have done in the past determines who we are today.

無論一個人為了甚麼原因做乞丐,都是一種選擇。

其實我們今天用自己的勞動力去換取一份收入,跟一個乞丐用自己的時間站在那裡風吹雨打去換取別人的同情心或金錢,又有甚麼實質上的區別呢?

看著這個乞丐微笑地站在那裡,而自己眉頭深鎖地想著這個富有哲學性的問題,我想我自己做人是否太過認真?

Relax, smile, and be happy!


June 25

人真是化學



朋友剛剛告知Michael Jackson 死左。

我對呢條友沒物comment, 無論是正面的,負面的,至少他是個家喻戶曉的人物。不過還是覺得人真是都幾化學。





June 22

不可思議的事情


其一:

表弟同班friends去road trip. 即是自己開車,穿州過省那種。本身是白面書生一個,剛剛在FB看見他upload的相,黑到成舊炭。唔識還以為他剛去完務農回歸。

科技發達的今天,一邊出trip, 一邊upload相上FB跟大家分享,可謂同步進行。十年前的我們還想像不到今天有這樣的事情吧?

其二:

從Sac回SF100英里,大概160公
,平時開個多小時就到。昨天,我晚上10點離開Sac, 居然塞車塞到救命。可能晚上才來整路,反正塞車就是很可怕的事情,還要自己一個人塞,回到SF居然是凌晨1點。幸好家樓下有車位,否則就真是雪上加霜。反正以後,9點之後,我就打死都不回家了。3個小時,你殺了我吧!




June 19

It's the women who always spoil things...and men don't think!


A forwarded article from a friend. It's hilarious! Do you guys get it?????  I do but I don't understand the title. Can anyone tell me?


 
One day my mother was out, and my dad was in charge of me.

I was maybe 2 1/2 years old. Someone had given me a little 'tea set' as a gift, and it was one of my favorite toys.

Daddy was in the living room engrossed in the evening news when I brought Daddy a little cup of 'tea', which was just water. After several cups of tea and lots of praise for such yummy tea, my Mom came home.

My Dad made her wait in the living room to watch me bring him a cup of tea, because it was 'just the cutest thing!' My Mom waited, and sure enough, here I came down the hall with a cup of tea for Daddy; and she watched him drink it up.

Then she said, (as only a mother would know), "'Did it ever occur to you that the only place she can reach to get water is the toilet?"

我寧願坐監



今天看到一側新聞。話美國有個32歲的媽媽因為非法下載音樂,俾法院罰8萬一首歌。她非法下載了24首,罰款總額是1.92 million.

換了是我,你拉我去坐監好過了!

我開始為我的朋友們擔心!



June 17

送俾自己既生日歌


一首好舊既歌,送俾自己做生日歌。如果有人唱埋俾我聽就仲正添啊!=D


歌名:婦女新知/莫文蔚
作曲:蔡一智
填詞:黃偉文

我係一個發育健全既女人 需要各種營養既平衡
男人 新衫 現全(加)約會 零食 珠寶 護膚品
運動 工作 交友(再)旅行 購物 娛樂 見男人
Sorry Sorry 我係咪數左兩次「男人」?
雖然係咁 愛情我都未算好著緊
(我吃 我戀上熱量)

今日我黎教大家整甜品
首先用滾水沖開Expresso 粉
再擺D Lady Fingers(餅乾)落去 浸到「林」
另一方面 將d蛋白攪一陣
起泡就加dKalua 再攪勻
最後兩樣倒埋一齊整到一層層
恭喜你 咁就完成左個 Tiramisu
一個世界馳名既意大利甜品

你係一個發育健全既女人
所以呢個時候你有野想問
無端端 整甜品 係咪手痕
抑或教你兩招等你"乙水"情人
Sorry Sorry 各位等等
女人最好既野唔一定要同男人分
整個甜品 錫下自己當獎品
邊個話愛黎留住佢個心
(我買 我擁有力量 讓心願能償)

有時返到屋企都覺得有d暈
因為買到成屋雜物無「訂」躉
於是惟有出街Shopping 散散心
這就是(我們)購物狂的命運(唸詩咁聲)

你問我做乜買左六條一樣既裙
你當我無用腦 其實我都有諗
漆皮真絲 橫紋直紋 長裙短裙迷你裙
綁帶拖鞋 平底高跟 唇膏胭脂乾濕粉
翻炒 再翻炒 係我懐既一生
只得舖頭永遠 有新到貨品
小學都有教 人類係一個社群
要相親相愛 咁先夠高等
既然平時唔准獨斷獨行 唯一呢個時候
我覺得唔駛靠人
唯一呢個時候 我可以全權負責任
唯一呢個時候 我真正憑良心

(我吃 我戀上熱量 幸福又平常
誰又說 沒理想 我買 我擁有力量...)
(唔該 excuse me 可唔可以羅果件大褸俾我睇下
Sorry 唔係呢件 係隔離有士多啤梨同Cream
係上面果件 thank you
唔係呢件 係隔離有士多啤梨同Cream
係上面果件...)

我係一個發育健全既女人
有乜傷心 自己識得做醫生
以前有事只係可以唸經文
而家仲有三個字:食、買、訓
買得多左最多忍一陣 食得多左去Gym 修下身
只係擔心訓得太多有空虛感
忽然好想身邊有個人

(我吃 我戀上熱量 幸福又平常
誰又說 沒理想 我買 我擁有力量
讓心願能償 付賬令我舒暢)

我係一個發育健全既女人 不過有時失驚無神發炆憎
以下呢句 你當我怕鬼拍後尾枕
我有時會諗:係咪真係要搵返個男人?
男人...唉~(唉氣)唉~




June 16

Bday Gift



My 1st b-day gift of the year from Mrs. Hong BY MAIL and might be the only 1 by mail!

She mailed the gift to me! What a surprise!

It's a air freshener and it smells good too!

Thanks!!!!

I really want Sim 3 as my b-day gift this year! haha... I hope my cousin reads my blog cause he can get it for $10 for me! What a deal!!!!! =P

Oh Miss Annie got me my 1st b-day gift a few week ago! I almost forgot! Here they are:



Thank you!


 

Lander Choi

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